Help for Parents, Family & Friends

The victims themselves are not the only ones impacted by sexual assault and abuse.  Often family members feel the various effects of the trauma: by helping their loved one cope, changes in family relationships legal issues, or their own feelings about the sexual abuse.  Significant others can be parents, siblings, spouses, friends, grandparents, or anyone that has the best interests of the victim in mind.  At KC-CASA/ISAS, significant others are encouraged to attend counseling in conjunction with the victim or with their own counselor individually.  It is important for significant others to play a role in the recovery of the victim and to help provide a support network.

Tips for Parents

How can I help my child?

Always believe your child

Tell your child that you believe them

Be supportive

Never blame your child for the abuse

Never punish them for the abuse

Never pressure your child to talk about the abuse

Never force your child to see the offender

Respect your child’s right to privacy

Do not hesitate to work out your own feelings with someone

What can I teach my child?

Consistently promote safety for your child in all aspects of his or her life

Encourage your child to talk to you about anything

Develop an open and honest relationship with your child

Know your children’s playmates

It is important to know who your children are with and where they are at all times

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